Being down for whatever can get you killed and I don’t know about you but I am NOT with it. That chick Bonnie died along side her gun toting boyfriend Clyde. That's not at all how I envision my life ending (not that I really think about it much). I know, I know I am being dramatic, but you have to tell me where we are going before I get dressed aka essential details. If, for some strange reason your ex girlfriend is going to be there or I'm meeting your mom I need to have my game face on. If something pops off I need to be prepared at best. Also what if I want to wear heels and he has a surprise hiking trip or tickets to a basketball game. A stadium with a million steps or a rocky terrain does not make sense in heels.
Here are 3 ways I like to think of myself as a “Ride or Die Chick”
1. I act like I enjoy sports: (I hate this one but it works) – Root for the same team and cheer when he cheers. Simple! I promise you don’t need to know the terminology. Once I was watching basketball and the announcer kept saying “alley-oop”, I turned to the guy I was talking to at the time and asked “Which player is Alley Oop?” He thought it was cute, but I was dead serious.
3. Being adventurous: (he needs to give essential details before hand) no one likes a uptight person, I encourage you all to step out of your comfort zones for a bit but always know your limits. Try different food, go see different types of movies. Ladies let him show you how to play his favorite video game.
4. Be honest: This is most important. Tell him/her the truth, if the sex is lacking be honest. Tell them how you want it. If he/she is wrong on a situation pull them aside and call them out on it.
Are you a ride of die chick?